Resources for Stepmoms
Mary T. Kelly, MA is a psychotherapist with 24 years of expertise helping women and their partners navigate the complexities of stepfamily life. Working with clients across the U.S. and beyond, Mary offers clinically-proven, research-based solutions to the unique challenges of partnering with children in the mix. Connect at MaryTKelly.com
Christina Nelson, LICSW is a clinical social worker, stepmom and co-creator of the "Radical Stepmoms" podcast. Committed to sharing her raw experience so others know they aren't alone, she also provides support for stepmoms and their partners to help them get unstuck and live more happily. Online at RadicalStepmomsPodcast.com.
Naja Hall is an entrepreneur, strategist and media personality who has spent 20+ years helping others transform conflict into growth. Through her VIPStepmom platform and popular "I Know I'm Crazy with Naja Hall" podcast, she provides coaching and community for stepmoms redefining success on their own terms. Visit VIPStepmom.com.
Stepmonster by Wednesday Martin, Ph.D. A groundbreaking look at why stepmothers think, feel and act the way they do — backed by research and finally free of judgment. Required reading for any stepmom who's ever wondered if she's the only one who feels this way. WednesdayMartin.com
BestInterest — Co-Parenting App An AI-powered app designed for stepmoms and co-parents navigating high-conflict communication. BestInterest filters toxic messages before they reach you, coaches your tone before you hit send, and creates court-admissible records — all without requiring your co-parent's participation. Free to start. BestInterest.app
Navigating stepfamily life is complicated. These hand-picked therapists, stepfamily coaches and support tools address the unique challenges stepmoms face — and come highly recommended by StepMom Magazine.
Claudette Chenevert, aka The Stepmom Coach, is a speaker, author and stepfamily professional who helps stepmoms create harmonious, thriving home lives. Author of "The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries" and related 52-Card Deck. Learn more at StepmomCoach.com.
Kristen Skiles, MBA is a certified stepparent coach, podcast host and founder of the Stepmom Con virtual summit. Drawing from her own experience as both a stepchild and a stepmom, she helps others overcome resentment and reclaim their peace. Author of "Stepmomming Made Easy." Learn more at Stepmomming.com.
Susan Haworth, MEd, MS is a veteran stepmom and founder of Cambios Coaching & Consulting, providing counseling, coaching and training for stepmothers and stepfamilies. Author of "A Change Would Do You Good: Proven Strategies for Creating the Life You Want." Visit CambiosCoaching.com.
The Happy Stepmother by Rachelle Katz, Ed.D., LMFT A practical, empowering guide for stepmoms who are tired of feeling frustrated and invisible. Ten steps to staying sane, reclaiming your identity and building a life you actually enjoy. Available at Amazon.com
Divorce Poison by Dr. Richard A. Warshak The world's best-selling guide to parental alienation. If your ex is bad-mouthing you to your children or actively working to turn them against you, this book gives you the strategies to protect those relationships and fight back effectively. Warshak.com
Michaela Bucchianeri, PhD is a clinical psychologist and coach who helps stepmoms ditch unhelpful narratives and embrace an identity all their own. Blending the science of psychology with the art of stepmomming, she'll help you worry less and have more fun. Visit TheAnxiousStepmom.com.
Heather Hetchler, MA is a certified life coach with 15+ years of expertise helping women navigate the emotional and relational sides of marriage, money and mindset. She specializes in helping couples have honest, compassionate conversations around boundaries, legacy planning and more. Visit HeatherHetchlerCoaching.com.
Emily Bouchard, MSSW, CMC is a family advisor, coach and author who helps clients navigate the intersection of love and money in blended families. A stepdaughter, stepmother and stepgrandmother herself, Emily brings both personal and professional experience to her work with individuals, couples and families. Visit EmilyBouchard.com.
You Can Heal Stepmom Burnout by Veronica Grace Andrews An action plan for stepmoms who are running on empty. Practical strategies for setting healthy boundaries, reducing stress and finding joy in your stepfamily life. Available at Amazon.com
Becoming a Stepfamily by Patricia L. Papernow A research-based exploration of how stepfamilies develop over time — widely considered a classic in the field. Essential reading for stepmoms and their partners who want to understand the patterns behind their experience. StepfamilyRelationships.com